Can You Design Your Future So That Your History Is What You Want It To Be While In Foreclosure?

January 19, 2009 by Admin  
Filed under FDO Blog

Many people right now are watching the television screen. Their eyes are glued to the T. V. as they watch the nation involve itself in the inauguration of the 44th President of the United States, and the first African-American President, Barack Obama.

While watching today, a question came into my mind. I noticed how this journey from Philadelphia to Washington, D.C. was designed. And it occurred to me in a very simple but powerful way, that Barack Obama was designing the future so that it fits the kind of history he wanted.

Many people right now are facing foreclosure.  I spoke to a woman the other day. Her name is Janet.  Janet is struggling with her bills, she is in foreclosure and three months behind in her payments. She has no idea what she is going to do. She is clear that she is going to lose her house, and she began to wallow in the reality of that.

She designed, in her mind, what that looks like. She created the inevitability of her own foreclosure situation, and the final day when she would have to leave her home, turn over the key, walk away, loomed large and big and clear in her mind. Until I said to her, Janet, what you don’t know is that you’ve designed a negative future! You’ve designed a future that does not match the future you want, but matches the future you fear. You’ve designed a future that focuses not on what you want to happen, but focuses on what you don’t want to happen, and even before that future has come, you are relating to that future like it is the truth.

But, what I want to tell you today is if you will take a page from Barack Obama’s notebook, you can design the kind of future you want, even though you are facing foreclosure today. How do you do that, you ask? Well, it’s very simple. Begin by noticing that President-Elect Obama, in this journey from Philadelphia today, all the way to Washington, D.C. You’re looking at your situation and you’re saying, it’s impossible. This obstacle is too great. This problem is too big. This challenge is too much. There is no way I can stop this foreclosure. I’m going to lose my house. Well, well, well, well, well, don’t be so certain, especially if you choose right now to focus on the journey and create the journey that leads to the destination you want.

I began to mention that there’s not just one future. There are many futures. I can identify four futures for you right now. There is the future that is hoped for and wished for, and then there’s the future that is the most likely future, and then there’s the future that is the created future or the caused future, the designed future, and then there’s the future that would have happened, could have happened, but never happened.

So, the question is, are you going to get caught up in the future that’s the most probable certain future? If you do nothing or continue the way you’re living, continue spending the way you’re spending and continue relating to your foreclosure problem as a problem instead of a challenge then of an opportunity for you to explore your own power, or to solve problems or to grow bigger than the problem. If you continue then what will you have? You have the probable most certain future, which is you will end up in foreclosure and you end up with your house gone and no place to live.

Then there’s the wished for future, the hoped for future, the dreamed of future. Is that the future you want? The future where it’s just a wish, it’s just a dream. You desire to get out of foreclosure, but it’s not a reality. It’s not real for you, you don’t feel it on any level, you don’t think of it, you don’t dream of it. You never stand from that standpoint and that position and that posture. Look with an eye of how can I create the journey that leads me to a place where I’m financially free out of foreclosure, living in a home safe and secure with my family. That’s the hoped for future, where you’re sitting back, watching,hoping,and dreaming.

Then there’s the designed future, the caused future and the created future. The future that would not have happened had you not came on the scene in the midst of your situation, in the presence of your obstacle, in the midst of your problems and said, I’m going to design it the way I want to design it. Now from standing in the place of that powerful stance, you look back and say, how can I create a solution that will be powerful?

Then there’s the future that never happened, that could have happened, would have happened, but just never happened. Either because you didn’t dream about it, or you didn’t wish for it, or you didn’t hope for it, or you didn’t cause it, or you didn’t design it. That’s the future that never happens. That’s the future that’s waiting to happen.

I challenge you right now to design a future where you have a home that’s out of foreclosure! Here is what that would look like. That would look like you taking aim at the number one enemy that’s keeping you from getting out of foreclosure. You know what that is? It’s your own personal resignation. It’s your own personal cynicism. It’s your own personal belief that there is nothing that can be done, the bank said no, the lawyers are against you, they all turned you down, and you’re going to lose your house. Your own personal jadedness and numbness that causes you to stay in your home, keep the curtain closed, not come outside, not answer the phone, not open your mail, your own personal resignation, cynicism and that there is no hope and that there’s nothing that can be done.

With that being said, I want to share with you a powerful opportunity. Yes, an opportunity to get out of foreclosure, to begin that journey toward that destination by getting a plan that will actually work for you. I have been working with a group of investors that have created a plan and a program that is so powerful that what they are offering you is what investors participate in who are investors who buy foreclosures from the bank on a regular basis. These investors are getting their homes from the bank directly a great discount after it’s been foreclosed upon and owned by the bank and the bank does sell it to an investor.

This group of investors are willing to offer you a dynamic opportunity to participate in a program that will allow you to save your home, keep you on title in your home, get your home down from the high inflated value that it is right now. The high mortgage that it is right now, get that mortgage canceled, get a new mortgage on your property right now that is at — that is based on market value, and you can possibly walk away from your foreclosure crisis not only with a good mortgage or a mortgage that you can work with that has a lower payment, but you can walk away from the foreclosure crisis with equity in your home.

Sounds too good to be sure? I know it does. But don’t fall prey to that jaded, numb, resigned and cynical spirit. Give me a call today or contact me on the website, right here at foreclosuredoctoronline.com. Let me know exactly what you’re going through and I will put you into this program immediately. 

The cost of this program is minimal compared to what is possible when it comes to saving your home. By participating in this program right now today, you can design the future of this foreclosure problem for yourself. You can cause a designed future that would not have happened, not just a hoped for and wished for future, not just a dreamed of future. If you focus on the destination and you feel negative about the future, then all you will do is sit and wait for that inevitable negative and dark day, but if you focus on the journey, then there’s a greater possibility for you to stay in action every single day.

Here’s what I mean by focus on the journey.  President-elect Barack Obama focuses on the journey from Philadelphia to Washington DC.  He asked a simple question. Instead of just flying to Washington DC, and making the inauguration the inevitable destination and now we’re there, he said how can we make this a historic and momentous occasion, that everybody in the world will remember, that the nation can look to? How can we start to create the buildup and the excitement and generate the energy necessary to bring a nation together before inauguration day? He began by focusing not on the destination, but on the journey. He used history. He used the heritage of America. He used the greatness of our legacy. He used all the elements that were brought together by the diverse cultures and nationalities.  He used people around him. He used the various stops that were intentionally planned. He created speeches for those moments. Barack Obama did a lot of homework to create an exciting and dynamic journey.

I declare to you today that you can create your journey too. You can design the future you want, put it out there, create the destination, but then don’t focus on the destination, identify what you have to do in the journey to get to that destination and focus on the journey. By focusing on the journey you will have a greater chance of staying in action moment by moment, day by day.  If you look at your journey from the standpoint of the destination, you will see clearly. What steps do I have to take? What actions do I have to take? What ways of being do I have to adopt? What behavior pattern do I have to embrace? What must I do to achieve this powerful destination?

But you don’t focus on the destination, you focus on the journey and the steps in that journey, the movement in that journey, the activity in that journey, the things you got to do in that journey every single day. I told Janet if she takes her eyes off the destination for a moment, but stand in that destination and look back at the journey. She would access to what it takes for her to create, powerfully, in the moment, a journey that is designed. So, she will go about designing her future, creating her future, so that she can embrace the history that she wants to embrace. Many people don’t know what you may not know right now is that there’s not just one future!

The Foreclosure Doctor (Online)

A New Foreclosure Solution?

January 16, 2009 by Admin  
Filed under FDO Blog

So, I just wanted to share the rules of the program with you.  The rules of the program are simple and powerful.

The first thing is you must be behind at least one payment.  If you are struggling every month to pay your mortgage — if you are not behind one payment, then this will not work for you. You must be behind at least one payment, and secondly, you must not have had any kind of mortgage reduction or loan modification at all. 

You must be able to show that you can pay the mortgage payment after it is refinanced, and you must be able to demonstrate that your debt to income ratio is no more than 48%.

Then, there is one final rule, and that is that you can’t have been less than 21 days before your foreclosure deadline.

So, this solution is only workable providing you are no less than 21 days before your foreclosure deadling.  You need to have at least 21 days between today and the deadline of your foreclosure in order for this solution to work. 

This is something that is brand new - it’s hot, and it is working to help many people.  There is a small fee of $1,000.  Some may not consider that small, but considering what you are getting, which is a brand new mortgage for one year, which you will be able to refinance after a year — it is very powerful.

I will write some more later about this, but for now, anybody who is interested and needing a solution to their financial dilemma and they are feeling like their house is upside down and they have nowhere else to turn, I am inviting you to don’t delay.

Call me right now! You can contact me by the number at the top of the screen, or you can send an e-mail.  You can fill out one of the forms.  There are many ways in which you can contact.  If you want to get me directly, just call 1-877-336-7001 and ask to speak to Peter.

The Foreclosure Doctor (Online)

What Steps are You Taking Today to End the Foreclosure Process?

January 12, 2009 by Admin  
Filed under FDO Blog

Well, it’s the beginning of a new week, Monday morning, and I know everybody’s back at work fully involved in their commitment, especially those who are in foreclosure. I just finished talking to Daphne.  She said she’s at work, calling me from work, committed to her work, but unsure of what steps she ought to take today to end her foreclosure process.  I shared with her a new insight that I want to share with you. It’s simple, short, but powerful.  It’s simply this.

If you were to bring the same commitment you bring to the workplace to solve the problems of your employer to your foreclosure problems, what would happen? If you were to bring that same commitment –that same energy, that same dedication, that same devotion, what would your life look like as you go through the foreclosure process? I would challenge you to believe that most people never bring the same commitment they bring to the workplace to their own personal financial problems.  In the first place, while at your workplace you are accountable to somebody and so when you’re dealing with a personal problem or personal financial issue, there is often times a lack of accountability.

I told Daphne — I said listen, if you were to bring accountability and responsibility into your personal life the way it is already existing in your work life, what difference would that make? What difference would it make if you became accountable to yourself and responsible for yourselves in your personal finances? I do declare it’ll make a dramatic difference! AND….. It’ll totally change the way you approach your day! Who goes to work and says well, if I don’t get this done today, it’s okay? Very few people, if they’re involved in a successful job, would ever think that way.  Yet many approach their personal finance problems with the thought — you know, if I don’t call the bank today or don’t respond to the lawyer today or don’t try and call an investor today or don’t try and look for solution today, it’s okay. And you automatically go from the problem to the despair and the depression and the feelings of you are not good enough and you are going to lose your house.  This is without bringing any of the energy, the commitment, the dedication, that we bring to the workplace to our personal lives. I invite you right now to reverse this behavior.  Bring the same commitment that you utilize and bring to your workplace, bring it to your personal life and watch how.

I want to add to that — let me add to that another important distinction that when you’re facing a personal crisis like foreclosure, on Monday morning it’s a very challenging time for most because that’s a time when everybody is coming back to work and everybody is becoming productive after taking a weekend off, weekend of relaxation. For many in foreclosure, you have not had this weekend of relaxation, rest and family and your weekend has probably been one of worry and frustration, fear and uncertainty. Wondering what you’re going to do, wondering how you’re going to solve your problems, fearful about when the bank or the sheriff is going to come to evict you? Frustrated after having tried so many different attempts and called so many different people and you still have not found a solution. So, not only do you have no rest, relaxation, fun, family, peace, and harmony on your weekend, but now you are forced to begin a new work week with that same unresolved issue in the background of your life.

Well, along with bringing the same commitments that you bring to your job to your personal life, here is what I want to ask you to examine. Examine the possibility that you’ve been relating to this foreclosure problem as though it should not be and in the context of this foreclosure problem should not be, you have found tons of evidence to feel sorry for yourself, to feel that there’s somebody to blame, to look for that person to blame, to feel  free that you could have avoided this situation. You spend a lot of energy reflecting on stuff that doesn’t matter right now, it will make no difference right now to change or transform your current situation. I’m inviting you to reconsider the framework or the context that you brought to the foreclosure problem you’re facing. The notion that it should not be is false. If it should not be, then it would not be.

But, by re-framing or creating a new context of it should be and it’s an opportunity for me to look in my life and see how to create the kind of life where I’m foreclosure proof, you can automatically change your state and become powerful in the instant of the moment. You do not have to live with the fear and the frustration and the feelings of futility if you take on the notion, hey, this problem that your facing should be because of the way life has been for you, but you can become powerful in this moment to direct the future to create the kind of life where you are foreclosure proof.

What kind of plan would you need? What do you need to continue exploring a new invention or a new idea, or putting together a new plan of action — could you live a life that’s foreclosure proof, if you stay on the same course you have been on, thinking the same thoughts, engaging in the same actions. What would it look like to create a life that is totally foreclosure free? Would it look like taking all your debts and really canceling out your debts one by one and changing your relationship to money? And totally, completely, transforming the way you relate to my finances.  This is a powerful approach that will lead you down the pathway not only to freedom from foreclosure and all kinds of bad debts, but it would lead you to financial freedom. So, to begin today.

I want to invite you to contact the Lonely Goetiata Group on our site.  Just click on the link that says Lonely Goetiata Group and we’ll begin to confront the foreclosure that you’re facing right now. We’ll seek what methods we can use to negotiate your loan, and to find a solution that will solve your problem.  I’ve worked long and hard to amass a number of solutions, but I’m confident that there’s nobody that we cannot help. Click right now on the link that says Lonely Goetiata Group, or call, and somebody will respond to you within 24 hours, take down some additional information about your case and provide you with a clear path and a dynamic set of choices that can lead you out of the darkness, the depression, the demise of foreclosure and debt into the bright sunshine of freedom from this problem and a better financial future ahead.

The Foreclosure Doctor (Online)

Dynamic Foreclosures Solution in 2009?

January 10, 2009 by Admin  
Filed under FDO Blog

So, I have been doing some dynamic research.  Based on conversations I have had with a number of you who called or e-mailed about how you can solve your foreclosure problem this New Year.

I have got some really, really great news for you! I have found an exciting new solution that will allow somebody who is in foreclosure to get a complete new mortgage on their house, even if the house is worth less than the amount that is owed against it.

Let me repeat, even if the house is worth far less than the amount of the mortgage or the amount owing on the property.

The Foreclosure Doctor Online has now found a solution where we can offer our clients an opportunity to stop the foreclosure, avoid the negative information of having a foreclosure being on your credit, totally prevent yourself or avoid having to move, prevent losing your house and going through the indignity and the embarrassment of having the house sold out from under you.

What does this mean?

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Why Do You Think Financial Resolutions Never Work to Stop Foreclosure?

January 6, 2009 by Admin  
Filed under FDO Blog

Danny had called me this morning to talk about his New Year’s Resolution. He was clear and concise.

At least that is exactly what he proclaimed. He was going to get out of debt this year and start building wealth.

He declared it and spoke it and there was so much confidence in his voice that he almost had me totally convinced.

I know you’ve been there.

You’re there right now.

It’s a New Year and you’ve just finished making a promise to yourself. You are going to get out of debt and turn your financial life around completely.

But, I’m leaning over my desk now and looking you square in the eye and asking you point blank, “Are you really?”

No you’re not!

Who are you kidding?

Didn’t you just do what everybody else does?

You declared, vowed and uttered a New Year’s Resolution. That’s what you’re suppose to do as you start the New Year.

Right!

And getting out of debt, stopping your foreclosure and losing weight are the number one things on your agenda, aren’t they?

Yes, it is true that most people are feeling warm and fuzzy around their new plans right now. But it’s also true that most people will drop those New Year’s resolutions and resort back to their old ways of being quite quickly.

Probably, before the month is done.

Yes,  Danny and most others will fail to accomplish what they promised they would do. But it really doesn’t have to be that way.

You can choose to have power with your “Word” and your “Promise” to yourself which you so fondly call your “New Year’s Resolution.”

So, I’m going to share three major tips most people miss when it comes to keeping their New Year’s Resolution.

I’m focusing on financial resolutions but this can easily be applied to all other aspects of your life.

1. Create your resolution as a clear, focused, measurable objective or goal

The truth is if you aim at nothing you will hit it every time.

You must establish a clear focus and identify markers that you can use to measure your results.

Without a practical and tangible way to measure your results how would you even know, how close you are to reaching your goal?

If you have a clear picture of the future then you’ll take giant steps. If the pathway ahead of you is fuzzy and uncertain then you would take hesitant steps.

2. Develop a plan of action that brings your resolution into reality.

Remember a New Year’s Resolution is not reality.

It exists solely as a possibility.

It is reality that is unformed and non-tangible. There is a gap between your resolution and your current reality. The only thing that will reduce that gap and bring your new possibility into reality is the actions you take to put your plans in place.

So ,you must have a plan and you must have action.

That is the intermediate step – a plan of action.

3. Build your New Year’s resolution into a powerful resolve.

It’s just that simple. In order to declare a New Year’s Resolution you must first be resolute.

And in order to be resolute you must have resolve.

What is resolve you ask?

I define it as an unwavering commitment to do or accomplish a task even if it kills you. When you come to the place where you are able to say “this shall be simply because I said it shall be then you have resolve.



One of my mentors Jim Rohn talks about resolve in this way; They said I can’t climb this mountain.



It’s too steep, too treacherous, too dangerous and too hard!



But it’s my mountain. And you’ll either see me waving from the peaks or dead on the side from trying.



This is a key ingredient which when coupled with the previous two will create a profound transformation in your life. By embracing this attitude you will turn yourself into an unstoppable creature.



By applying these three simply principles specifically to your financial goals I promise you can turn your entire financial situation around.



And you’ll have an amazing story to tell of personal victory and triumph experienced as a result of your New Years Resolution.



This time by following these three principles you can really begin to invent yourself newly bring a whole new person to your circumstances.



Inside your New Year’s Resolution there is a dynamic commitment not just to the task or goal you set out to accomplish but to yourself. You probably never recognized it before but you made a promise to yourself.



The question now becomes “How good are you at keeping that promise you made to yourself?

Are you going to be stuck or are you going to be powerful?

By standing in the place of “Resolution” and clinging to a mighty “Resolve” you actually cause a shift in your life that will alter your future.

So, let’s just see.

What is your resolution?

A place where you are able to say “this shall be simply because I said it shall be then you have resolve. A place where you are able to say “this shall be simply because I said it shall be then you have resolve.

What actions are you taking today?

Do you have resolve?

The Foreclosure Doctor (Online)

Getting Out of Foreclosure is So Easy When You know How to Do More than Merely Write a Hardship Letter. Do You Know That?

December 9, 2008 by Admin  
Filed under Economic Crisis, Hardship Letters

So, we’re now rounding the corner towards this year’s finished line.

I have just talked to so many people out there who are literally scrambling for a solution to getting out of foreclosure.  They are indeed very much stuck.

Let me tell you about Vicky and Sergio.

They were real smart and resourceful and I felt impressed by the amount of research they did.

Sergio was a Med Student and Vicky worked from home selling Mary Kay.

We had a simple but clarifying conversation.  And they quickly knew exactly what actions they needed to take within the first few minutes of the phone call.

They were behind on their payments and they were trying to find out how to make the impending foreclosure go away.

I shared clearly that the only thing that makes foreclosures go away is “Money.”

They said plainly and in one voice spoken in unison, “But can’t we just write a hardship letter to the bank?”

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Have You Got the New Possibility for Those Caught in the Foreclosure Process?

December 5, 2008 by Admin  
Filed under Foreclosure Procedure, Politics and Economy

Wow, what an incredible challenge so many people are facing. They are struggling on every move they make to get out of foreclosure, and avoid loosing their homes. However, no matter what they do they seem to only dig themselves deeper, and deeper into the hole. It’s almost as if people are stuck, stuck in the muck and the mud of a depressing downward spiral. As if they’re in quick sand, and trying to escape. Well, I’ve been thinking why is it that so many people are holding on to their homes, as if holding on to a sinking ship and hoping to survive the raging ocean that swirls all around them.

I was talking with Danny, and oh, if you could only hear his story. Nothing about his lender’s attitude seemed favorable; nothing about the structure of his mortgage seemed beneficial to him. In fact, Danny was stuck in foreclosure. There he was struggling hard to hold on to a home that he didn’t even like anymore. He had totally lost his pride of ownership. Lost interest in keeping the home, lost his desire to live in that neighborhood, didn’t like his neighbors, didn’t like the side of town he was on because it was far from work; it was not a safe community for him.  I asked Danny one simple question and got him thinking. I said Danny, “Why are you holding on to this home, as if it’s the only home in the world?”

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Why Not Use the Foreclosure Procedure to Blow Up Your Power and Expand Your Capacity?

December 3, 2008 by Admin  
Filed under Building Wealth, Family

I want to talk for a moment about your feelings that you are trapped in the foreclosure procedure. I fully understand and comprehend why you might feel that way.  It is very easy to feel stuck; to feel debilitated; to feel depressed; to feel totally diminished by being caught up in the foreclosure procedure.

James and Julie were in this position. They didn’t know what to do. They felt like they had no power whatsoever.  After all, when they looked at their lives, they recognized that they had been struggling with finances for many, many, many years. Actually, it had been the ever unending story in their lives; it seemed like a story they both inherited from their parents.  There was never enough money.  They was always more month than money. They were never any extras. There was always more bills, and they always seemed to be paying their bills late. They always seemed to have bad credit, and now, after years of debilitating financial struggle and hardship, finally they find themselves stuck in the foreclosure process. Bad credit, no power, nothing that allows them to experience even a taste of the good life, and that’s where I met them. I had three simple solutions for James and Julie, and I will freely share them with you.

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What is Possible Because of the Foreclosure Process You Are In That Was Not Possible Before?

November 27, 2008 by Admin  
Filed under Loan Modification, Sell Your House

Part 4

Jennifer was trying her hardest to find a solution to her parents’ financial demise.  They were in foreclosure but just didn’t have the resources nor the ability to do what was needed to find a solution.  They didn’t want to do it but they shared their financial challenge with their daughter Jennifer.  That’s why they were now getting such incredible results.  She brought a whole new perspective and view to the problem of her parents foreclosure. 

First of all she quickly started taking steps that her parents would have never taken.  She figured out fast that she didn’t know too much about the foreclosure procedure and so she was quite certain that whatever she did would either make a different or not make a difference.  Is that a perspective you’d be willing to adopt?

Her youth and inexperience allowed her to take advantage of some incredible and amazing solutions.  Do you think this is something you can do for you?

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So, What is it That Has You Stuck in the Foreclosure Process?

November 21, 2008 by Admin  
Filed under Stopping Foreclosure

PART 2

Susan was crying on the phone as she explained her story to me. She just got home from the grocery store and as she was putting away her goods when the door bell rang.  A stranger at the door handed her an envelope and said he was to hand deliver this notice from the county courthouse. Immediately, her countenance fell. 

She couldn’t believe it! How could they do this to her? I promised her that we can get to the bottom of her problem with a simple conversation.  I asked her to continue sharing with me her situation while I took down some careful notes. She knew for sure that her lender was now foreclosing on her house even though she explained her situation to them and they promised that they would give her time to get caught up. She thought to herself, “what a bunch of mean, lying, evil and self-centered jerks. Don’t they have any sympathy for a single Mother with four children? Now, all the legal fees would start adding up, and all the letters from real estate investor vultures would start coming offering to buy her house, and her neighbors would soon find out that she was in foreclosure and her reputation would be shot.


But worse than that where would she find another place to live in this bad real estate market. Clearly, the banks weren’t lending money even to people with good credit.  Now she had bad credit and she felt like she was living in a sinking ship. Clearly, Susan had been through the foreclosure process many times before.  She knew the entire procedure almost by heart. So, I had to ask her the simple question that many feel is to hard or difficult or mean to ask.  “What is it that has you sinking into foreclosure every six to twelve months,”  I asked? Are you attracting this financial demise into your life or is it attracting you?




You see many times we don’t get the right answers in life, simply because we don’t ask the right questions.  So, within the scope of this question are a series of about three other smaller but serious questions.  And frankly it doesn’t matter who you are if you’re facing a reoccurring foreclosure situation.


You must confront these three questions.


Question Number 1 Are you stuck in the foreclosure process because you have a house that is simply too expensive for you? So let me hear you tell the truth.  What is it really? No, no, no you’re not going to escape from this question! If you thought you got away all those other times before well let me tell you, I got you now and you can’t go anywhere.  Don’t even think of leaving this blog post until you confront this question.


Are you one of those who is living way beyond your means? Did you buy much more house than you can afford with a mortgage far greater than you can afford to pay and you refuse to tell yourself or anybody else the truth all this time? If that is the case then you deserve to be in foreclosure because you’re pretending that you can afford to live in a great big expensive house when you know that you can’t. I’m not saying that you won’t be able to live in a huge fancy house one day or that you don’t deserve to live in one now.


This is not about what you deserve to live in nor about the possibilities and potential that exists for you.  I believe you are powerful beyond measure. You can really accomplish anything you want and buy any kind of house you want to buy – and actually afford to live in it. However, if you have found yourself in and out of foreclosure over and over again then you need to take  a serious look at your game plan. No, I’m not here to tell you what you want to hear on this subject.  I’m here to tell you what you need to hear.


Either you get a bigger game plan that will match the size of the house you are living in or you get a smaller house that corresponds to the game plan you have created for yourself. But, you can’t continue the madness you’ve been engaged in. I’ve got some solutions that will help you identify and adjust either way.


If this post has impacted you and you want to scale down but you’re having trouble getting the house sold in this declining market then you’ve got to let me know. You can either call the number at the top of the screen or fill out the opt-in box with your information at the top right hand side of this blog post.  I promise I will have a powerful conversation with you that will leave you in a place of freedom and choice. You will be able to see your options clearly and I can help you choose wisely.


Don’t get me wrong now.  I’m not begging you to call!  I have much more that I can be doing than talking on the phone. The only reason I do it is because I really care about the number of people losing their homes unnecessarily in this country.


In my view, it doesn’t have to be this way. Simply by telling the truth and facing the facts I can help you make some powerful and wise choices even in this market that will totally get you unstuck and free once and for all from the unending cycle of the foreclosure process.


Question Number 2 Are you stuck in the foreclosure process because you are being careless and unfaithful with your money? Well, if this is your problem then quite frankly what do you want in the way of a solution? There is very little anyone can do to help you if you’ve chosen to squander your money on a consistent, regular basis.


So, let’s get one thing straight, it doesn’t matter what habit or addiction or freakish fantasy you’re squandering your money in, I’m telling you to STOP IT NOW. It is one thing to be facing foreclosure and really want help to get out of the vicious cycle.  But, it’s another to totally sabotage your own financial well being on a daily basis by engaging in the game of satisfying your urges and addictions and feel good moments. Who are you trying to fool? And what game are you trying to play? Get real and start telling the truth about yourself and dealing with your issues in a healthy and powerful fashion.


There are real and meaningful actions that you must take today if you’re squandering money.  If you are spending your money at the casino gambling the night away then it’s simply no wonder that you’re stuck in the foreclosure process. My question to you is,”How much money do you need to loose until you conclude that you’ve had enough pain? How much worse does it need to get for you? Okay, you say I don’t gamble but I do go to strip joints and drink a whole lot.  It’s my escape from all my problems and what’s more, I get a good kick out of seeing the pretty girls dance. Well then that’s what has you stuck in the foreclosure process.  Some alcohol and a girl.


You see, sooner or later you must face the facts and tell the truth. If you want to be powerful and put an end to your constant “in and out” of the foreclosure process, then you have to make a choice.


Here’s how you do that. Begin today by determining that you will guard your money as if it were your very life.  Get all the help you need to overcome your addictions.  Involve yourself in another activity that does not waste and squander your money. Choice definitively to enhance the quality of your life. And lift yourself from the clutches of gambling, alcohol, sex and smoking addictions.  I promise you they will suck the life from your financial future and back you into a small corner.  Don’t let life back you into a small corner. But you say, how shall I deal with all my stress and fear and worries?


Well you go on the offensive.  No matter what your problem is. Impending threat of foreclosure.  If you get up and start taking aggressive powerful action then you will actually begin to drive your problems into a small corner. By continually engaging in this practice instead of giving in to your addictions and urges you will find your strength of character and personhood beginning to rebuild.  And you can actually avoid the trap of the foreclosure process and all the uncertainty and pain it causes.


Question Number 3  Are you stuck in the foreclosure process because you attracting or drawing negative events and circumstances into your life? So, don’t get me wrong when I tell you I understand your circumstances.  I get that something incidental and traumatic has happened that has you broken and battered and beaten and bruised.  You’ve be strung out by life’s circumstances and now you’ve ended up stuck in the foreclosure process. Clearly, there are circumstances that happen in everyone’s life.  And I get there are things that happen that are totally beyond your control.


My question to you is “What it that you are doing with life’s circumstances that you are constantly threatened by the foreclosure process? Why not get out and then go build the kind of life that insulates you and makes you secure and safe from this damnable threaten of foreclosure and homelessness? You see so many people who are in foreclosure think of themselves as victims. Somewhere along the line they’ve chosen to simply sit back and let life happen to them.


Well I’m here to tell you, “Don’t just let life happen to you!” Get up and start impacting life. Begin to make dynamic and lifelong changes to the way in which you operate. Yes that’s right! Don’t sit back and wait for life to change for you.  If you’re waiting for that to happen then I promise you you’ll be waiting a mighty long time. But, if you begin today to make little changes to your life then you will begin to have results that will last a lifetime.


That’s the truth I learned from one of my most powerful and impacting mentors known as Jim Rohn. If you want life to change then you must change. You must change your attitude and your philosophy and your perspective. Change your diet and your exercise regiment and your behavior. If you’re willing to change then your whole life will change around you.


So, start right now to look at which one of these questions applies to you! Don’t do what you’ve always done and walk away from a challenging question, thought or idea.  Start looking at your life.  Look at what it is that’s got you stuck. Look at your attitude and your philosophy.


And create a plan of action that will get you unstuck and leave you free. I’m going to end this post by asking you to do one simple task. First, I want you to fill out the information box at the very top right of this blog post.  Just enter in your information there and I’ll be able to give you a call to further help you.


Or you can if you really want to get help fast then click on the words at the top that say “Get A Loan Negotiation” and completely fill out all the information in that form.  I promise a highly trained professional will be in touch with you within 48 hours to help you either structure a loan modification or establish a plan of action to get out of foreclosure.  Don’t delay call today.


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